<TEI xmlns="http://www.tei-c.org/ns/1.0" xmlns:py="http://codespeak.net/lxml/objectify/pytype" py:pytype="TREE"><text xml:lang="eng"><body><div type="translation" n="urn:cts:greekLit:tlg0059.tlg012.perseus-eng2" xml:lang="eng"><div type="textpart" subtype="section" resp="perseus" n="241"><p><said who="#Socrates" rend="merge"><label>Socrates.</label>And while he is in love he is harmful and disagreeable, but when his love has ceased he is thereafter false to him whom he formerly hardly induced
<milestone unit="page" resp="Stephanus" n="241"/><milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="241a"/>to endure his wearisome companionship through the hope of future benefits by making promises with many prayers and oaths.  But now that the time of payment has come he has a new ruler and governor within him, sense and reason in place of love and madness, and has become a different person;  but of this his beloved knows nothing.  He asks of him a return for former favors, reminding him of past sayings and doings, as if he were speaking to the same man;  but the lover is ashamed to say that he has changed, and yet he cannot keep the oaths and promises he made
<milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="241b"/>when he was ruled by his former folly:  now that he has regained his reason and come to his senses, lest by doing what he formerly did he become again what he was.  He runs away from these things, and the former lover is compelled to become a defaulter.  The shell has fallen with the other side up;<note resp="Loeb" anchored="true">This refers to a game played with oyster shells, in which the players ran away or pursued as the shell fell with one or the other side uppermost.</note> and he changes his part and runs away;  and the other is forced to run after him in anger and with imprecations, he who did not know at the start that he ought never to have accepted a lover
<milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="241c"/>who was necessarily without reason, but rather a reasonable non-lover;  for otherwise he would have to surrender himself to one who was faithless, irritable, jealous, and disagreeable, harmful to his property, harmful to his physical condition, and most harmful by far to the cultivation of his soul, than which there neither is nor ever will be anything of higher importance in truth either in heaven or on earth.  These things, dear boy, you must bear in mind, and you must know that the fondness of the lover is not a matter of goodwill, but of appetite which he wishes to satisfy: 
<milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="241d"/><q type="spoken">Just as the wolf loves the lamb, so the lover adores his beloved.</q> There it is, Phaedrus!  Do not listen to me any longer;  let my speech end here.</said></p><p><said who="#Phaedrus"><label>Phaedrus.</label> But I thought you were in the middle of it, and would say as much about the non-lover as you have said about the lover, to set forth all his good points and show that he ought to be favored.  So now, Socrates, why do you stop?</said></p><milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="241e"/><p><said who="#Socrates"><label>Socrates.</label> Did you not notice, my friend, that I am already speaking in hexameters, not mere dithyrambics, even though I am finding fault with the lover?  But if I begin to praise the non-lover, what kind of hymn do you suppose I shall raise?  I shall surely be possessed of the nymphs to whom you purposely exposed me.  So, in a word, I say that the non-lover possesses all the advantages that are opposed to the disadvantages we found in the lover.  Why make a long speech?  I have said enough about both of them.</said></p></div><div type="textpart" subtype="section" resp="perseus" n="242"><p><said who="#Socrates" rend="merge"><label>Socrates.</label>And so my tale shall fare
<milestone unit="page" resp="Stephanus" n="242"/><milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="242a"/>as it may;  I shall cross this stream and go away before you put some further compulsion upon me.</said></p><p><said who="#Phaedrus"><label>Phaedrus.</label> Not yet, Socrates, till the heat is past.  Don’t you see that it is already almost noon?  Let us stay and talk over what has been said, and then, when it is cooler, we will go away.</said></p><p><said who="#Socrates"><label>Socrates.</label> Phaedrus, you are simply a superhuman wonder as regards discourses!  I believe
<milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="242b"/>no one of all those who have been born in your lifetime has produced more discourses than you, either by speaking them yourself or compelling others to do so.  I except Simmias the Theban;  but you are far ahead of all the rest.  And now I think you have become the cause of another, spoken by me.</said></p><p><said who="#Phaedrus"><label>Phaedrus.</label> That is not exactly a declaration of war!  But how is this, and what is the discourse?</said></p><p><said who="#Socrates"><label>Socrates.</label> My good friend, when I was about to cross the stream, the spirit and the sign
<milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="242c"/>that usually comes to me came—it always holds me back from something I am about to do—and I thought I heard a voice from it which forbade my going away before clearing my conscience, as if I had committed some sin against deity.  Now I am a seer, not a very good one, but, as the bad writers say, good enough for my own purposes;  so now I understand my error.  How prophetic the soul is, my friend!  For all along, while I was speaking my discourse, something troubled me, and as Ibycus says,
<milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="242d"/><cit><quote type="verse">I was distressed lest I be buying honor among men by sinning against the gods.</quote><bibl>Ibycus Frag. 24, Bergk.</bibl></cit>But now I have seen my error.</said></p><p><said who="#Phaedrus"><label>Phaedrus.</label> What do you mean?</said></p><p><said who="#Socrates"><label>Socrates.</label> Phaedrus, a dreadful speech it was, a dreadful speech, the one you brought with you, and the one you made me speak.</said></p><p><said who="#Phaedrus"><label>Phaedrus.</label> How so?</said></p><p><said who="#Socrates"><label>Socrates.</label> It was foolish, and somewhat impious.  What could be more dreadful than that?</said></p><p><said who="#Phaedrus"><label>Phaedrus.</label> Nothing, if you are right about it.</said></p><p><said who="#Socrates"><label>Socrates.</label> Well, do you not believe that Love is the son of Aphrodite and is a god?</said></p><p><said who="#Phaedrus"><label>Phaedrus.</label> So it is said.</said></p><p><said who="#Socrates"><label>Socrates.</label> Yes, but not by Lysias, nor by your speech
<milestone unit="section" resp="Stephanus" n="242e"/>which was spoken by you through my mouth that you bewitched.</said></p></div></div></body></text></TEI>